My Father Is Coming
1991 · 82 min · ★ 5.0 · Comedy
Vicky, an out-of-work actress, struggling waitress and lesbian has her whole life thrown into turmoil when her father comes from Germany to visit. The main problem is that Vicky has told him she is a successful actress and happily married. She enlists the help of a gay friend to play her husband. Using a large range of characters—gay, lesbian, straight, transsexuals—the film creates a funny and touching view of family dynamics and sexuality.
Directed by Monika Treut · Written by Bruce Benderson
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Shelley Kästner Vicky - A Alfred Edel Hans
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Annie Sprinkle Annie -
Michael Massee Joe -
Michael Waite Bartender - M Mary Lou Grailau Lisa
- D David Bronstein Ben
- D Dominique Gaspar Christa
- F Flora Gaspar Dora
- F Fakir Musafar Fakir
- I Israel Marti Tito
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Bruce Benderson Allen
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