The Feeling of Being Close to You

The Feeling of Being Close to You

2022 · 13 min · Documentary, Family

This autobiographical film documents an attempt at healing the trauma of touch between mother and child, as the filmmaker and their mother talk openly for the first time about the intergenerational trauma and abuse within their lives. Present day phone conversations are juxtaposed with archival VHS footage, creating a connection between the past and a re-write for the future.

Directed by Ash Goh Hua

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