When We Were Bullies

When We Were Bullies

The past is a vulnerable place

2021 · 36 min · ★ 4.9 · Documentary

A mind-boggling "coincidence" leads the filmmaker to track down his fifth grade class – and fifth grade teacher – to examine their memory of and complicity in a bullying incident fifty years ago.

Directed by Jay Rosenblatt · Written by Jay Rosenblatt

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