Love Is Not an Argument

Love Is Not an Argument

1984 · 80 min · ★ 4.0 · Drama, Romance

The relationship of a married couple in their 40s is broken when the mother has an affair with her teenage daughter's boyfriend.

Directed by Marianne Lüdcke · Written by Marianne Lüdcke

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