When I Knew

When I Knew

2009 · 36 min · ★ 6.0 · Documentary

Alternately candid, funny, poignant and heartbreaking, this documentary focuses on a cross-section of men and women of all ages who invoke the exact moment in their lives--whether as toddlers, grade-schoolers, teens or young adults--when they knew, once and for all, that they were gay. Inspired by the work of writer Robert Trachtenberg, award-winning filmmakers Fenton Bailey and Randy Barbato set out across the country to interview these men and woman of all ages and walks of life and ask them a single, simple question: When did you know?

Directed by Fenton Bailey

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Jeffrey Patrick Olson Himself
Ashley Arnold Young Teenage Girl
Melissa Marie Gibson Teenage Girl #
James Evans Homophobic Father
Charlene Geisler Kid # 1

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